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Are you ready to take the next step in overcoming problems in your life?

Gaslighting. Love bombing. Hoovering. Triangulating. These are all insidious weapons in the narcissist’s toolkit. Narcissism can be hard to diagnose, but it is one of the hallmarks of abusive relationships. As a therapist specializing in narcissism and domestic abuse, Vanessa Reiser has strategies to help victims to identify, understand, and heal from abusive relationships. With a blend of information, education, and stories, Reiser defines what narcissistic abuse is, breaks down how it’s a form of domestic violence and how narcissists think and operate, uncovering their mindset and motivations, so readers can spot a narcissist more accurately, avoid toxic relationships, escape dangerous situations, and heal from mental, emotional and/or physical trauma.

Our Mission

Empathetically connecting with people where they are at, using a non-judgmental approach, to inspire them to identify their own strengths, create change in unwanted behaviors, develop and achieve goals by practicing self-determination along with supplementary guidance and support so that they can ultimately discover their potential.

Tell a Therapist Offers

Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist, whose mission is to help Narcissist Abuse Victims, adolescents, teenagers and adults uncover their true potential and move forward with confidence toward all of their goals. Vanessa and her team specialize in working with individuals, couples, and groups focusing on the treatment of:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • PTSD (Trauma)
  • Grief/Loss
  • Eating Disorders
  • Marriage or Interpersonal Relationship Problems

  • Alcohol or Drug Abuse
  • Academic Pressure/Problems
  • Peer Pressure
  • Bullying
  • Body Image Issues
  • Low Self-Esteem

“While we can’t change difficult situations of the past, or erase traumas from our lives, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges through strong coping mechanisms and tools.”

Vanessa Reiser, Founder, Tell a Therapist, LLC
The Tell a Therapist Team

Valued clients, we at Tell A Therapist are so very excited to introduce you to the members of our staff. We strive to provide all of our clients with clinicians that are not only capable of providing them the care they need, but that excel in the areas where our clients need the most guidance.

Vanessa Reiser

Psychotherapist- CEO of Tell a Therapist

Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, and MA whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. She specializes in working with individuals, couples, and groups focusing on the treatment of NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s everyday challenges. Vanessa is trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). She is also certified in teletherapy. Vanessa worked at The Bronx High School of Science, and High School of American Studies so she has extensive experience working with youth, holding her Educational Service Certificates in the states of New York and New Jersey.

Education:

Bachelor of Science – SUNY Empire State
Masters of Social Work – University of Southern California

Post-Graduate Training:
New York University – Clinical and Advanced Clinical Certificates

Professional Affiliations:
National Association of Social Workers (NASW)
Board Member for the Center for Safety and Change (CFSC)
Founder of Rockland Pride Center

Experience with Teens:

Clinical Social Worker at The Bronx High School of Science
Clinical Social Worker at The High School of American Studies

Lisa Velazquez

Psychotherapist

Lisa Velazquez is a highly experience psychotherapist who has been clinically practicing for over 20 years and has her Masters of Social Work from Fordham University.

Through her practice, Lisa believes in helping to empower people in their journey of healing and provides clinical services to adults and families from diverse backgrounds who have a variety of needs including Narcissistic Abuse and Substance Use disorders among other issues such as divorce and custody visitation.

She specializes in family therapy, couples counseling, individual psychotherapy, treatment of severe mental health disorders like anxiety disorders, depressive disorders, substance abuse, PTSD, and helping clients navigate through various life changes. Lisa has been trained in various forms of therapeutic interventions such Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. She believes that while there is no “one size fits all”, her clients benefit from the self empowerment, mindfulness, solution focused therapies and trauma informed therapies that she provides them with.

Lisa believes all clients deserve to be treated with respect, dignity and support in a safe therapeutic environment where they can work on their own individualized treatment needs. Most importantly, Lisa has first hand knowledge and experience of being a survivor of narcissistic abuse and the importance of validation and humanization of one’s own experience throughout the healing process of that trauma.

Lisa continues to help other survivors in their journey of healing and empowerment.

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Autumn Walker, MSW, LSW

Master of Social Work

Autumn Walker, MSW, LSW, is a Licensed Social Worker specializing in trauma-focused, evidence-based care for children, adolescents, and families, with a particular emphasis on supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse. She holds a Master’s in Social Work from Rutgers University and is trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) as well as certified in the KIPS parenting intervention.

With extensive experience in intensive in-community therapy, Autumn provides culturally responsive, client-centered care to clients impacted by trauma, narcissistic abuse, family conflict, and emotional or behavioral challenges. She is skilled in crisis assessment, treatment planning, and resilience-building, with a proven track record of helping clients achieve emotional regulation, strengthen coping skills, and navigate the complex dynamics of narcissistic abuse to foster healing and empowerment.

Autumn has worked with multiple community-based organizations, collaborating with Mobile Response, Care Management Organizations, schools, and healthcare providers to ensure integrated trauma-informed support. Her background also includes healthcare administration and managed care, equipping her with a strong understanding of compliance, documentation, and interdisciplinary systems of care.

In addition to her clinical work, Autumn is the Founder and CEO of With A Purpose for Women, Inc., a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering women, girls, and families through mental health resources, self-esteem programs, and academic-based financial assistance. She also leads initiatives such as the Teen to Queen Summit, which equips young women with tools for resilience, leadership, and personal growth.

Passionate about advocacy and education, Autumn integrates her professional expertise in addressing narcissistic abuse and trauma with her lived values of compassion, empowerment, and cultural humility. She continues to expand her impact through therapy, community engagement, and nonprofit leadership, dedicated to helping individuals and families heal, grow, and thrive after trauma.

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Natalie Ayala LMSW

Licensed Master Social Worker

Natalie Ayala LMSW, is a trauma-informed clinician who earned her Master’s Degree from Adelphi University. Passionatley dedicated to helping survivors of narcissistic abuse reclaim their power, voice, and sense of self. As a survivor herself, Natalie brings a rare depth of empathy, clinical skill, and lived understanding to her practice; creating a space where clients feel truly seen, validated, and safe to heal.

With extensive experience across some of the most challenging environments in mental health, Natalie has worked in high-acuity medical and psychiatric emergency departments as well as outpatient settings. She has supported individuals navigating complex trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, severe mental illness, and life transitions. Her background in gerontology further strengthens her ability to meet clients with compassion and insight across every stage of life.

Natalie specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery, offering a highly personalized, empowering approach that integrates evidence-based trauma treatment with deep validation of the survivor experience. She helps clients break free from cycles of gaslighting, confusion, and self-doubt; guiding them to rebuild boundaries, restore self-trust, and step fully into their strength and authenticity.

Whether you’re just beginning to recognize the patterns of narcissistic abuse or are further along in your healing journey, Natalie creates a collaborative therapeutic space where real transformation becomes possible. Her clients consistently describe her as warm, insightful, and deeply affirming; someone who not only understands the pain but also knows the path forward.

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“Vanessa has spent her life compassionately serving others. Her relatable and non-judgmental approach provides the ideal therapeutic relationship to help clients work through emotional trauma and free themselves of unwanted behaviors.”
Laura Owens
Combat Veteran & Social Work Professor,  University of Southern California
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